Crazy Things Men Do.

Hello buddy, how are you today? Thanks for your mail, comment and love.

I want to share a funny story with you today, let's loosen up a bit.

I was at my friend's place and one of our friends (Dami), invited a girl over, when the girl arrived, she called Dami that she was at the gate..... Dami was in his car outside, he told her to come down from the cab and join him in his car but she said he should come and pay for her cab fare.

Dami said he has to go use his ATM card, that the cab man and the girl should follow him, driving behind him. Meanwhile, Dami didn't have any money and wasn't even ready to pay no money. When he hit the freeway, he drove so fast, ran away and switched his phone off.

LOL!!!. This is hilarious, what if the babe didn't have a dime with her? She must have felt very very bad but i don't expect her not to have any money on her and she should have informed him about the payment before coming over.

Very silly dude... I'm sure my reader won't do this, right? LOL!.

Would You Date A Babe That Dumped Her Boyfriend Just To Be With You?.

Hello darling, how are you doing today? I had a superb but long day.

Ok, before I forget again, my email address is daintytoks@gmail.com.

I received a phone call from a guy yesterday night, he shared something with me.

He likes a girl he met 2 months ago, even though she said she was in a relationship. They kept in touch and he could tell the girl was liking him, real hard. Then one day, he asked about her boyfriend and she said she broke up with him because of him.....

I didn't allow him continue, I said its a lie! Lol, but I'm blunt like that..... If she broke up with her boyfriend because of him, for no other reason, then she would break up with him because of another guy. What kind of sudden love will make you break up with your boyfriend of 2 years???

His question was if he should go ahead with the relationship, Like I always say, "Follow Your Heart", and if his heart says go ahead with her, then he should not sleep with both eyes closed, if you understand what I'm saying.

My Lady, would you date a guy that dumped his girlfriend just to be with you? And My handsome friend, would you date a girl who dumped her boyfriend because of you???..

He Forgot To Tell Her The Problem.

How are you my friend? I think Aisha stimulated a guy last week and left him hanging....lol.

I was going through the mails sent to me last week and this one is sooo alarming.

A christian lady (not sure if deeper life), is married to a sweet guy who respected her feelings, and agreed to 'no sex' before wedding - What a rare gem.

On the night of their wedding, it was time for action and the husband excused himself to use the bathroom, he was there for a while, purging. He came out and complained he was having real stomach upset, she made him the salt and sugar solution, he was okay and they went to bed... Yes, nothing happened that night.

The next morning, the wife rolled on him and they started to kiss, touch and all of that {don't forget it's early in the morning}, but lil John refused to stand up.... and the husband got up and said he was IMPOTENT!....

OMG!!!, my tablet fell, what did I just read?? Oh no, this is so unfair... The lady is so devastated and frustrated. Who won't be? That guy is wicked.

I think that's one of the disadvantages of 'no sex' before wedding.....

I replied her, I said they should go to the hospital and see if anything can be done but she's too angry that the husband didn't tell her, led her on and she wants a divorce.

My dear Reader, do you think she should walk out of the marriage?.

My dear Doctor, Is there a solution to this kind of problem?.

How Conflict Can Improve Your Relationship.

Conflict gets a bad rap. We automatically assume that conflict will collapse a relationship. Some of us avoid conflict like the plague, thinking that if we close our eyes to a potential clash, it doesn't exist.

“Engaging in conflict isn't going to end the relationship, it’s avoiding the conflict [that might],” According to Michael Batshaw.... He said that, “No problem is too small to acknowledge in a relationship.”

But how do you make sure that conflict doesn't ruin your relationship and instead helps it grow? The good news is that “most fighting comes from skill deficits,” According to Susan Heitler.

So you can learn to approach conflict in a constructive and effective way. Below are tips to help you do just that......

Work On Your Listening skills. Communication is key to resolving conflict. The bedrock of good communication? Fully listening to your partner without building a case in your head of how your partner is wrong...Couples who are stuck in conflict are unable to empathize with their partner.

Participate In Shared Problem Solving. Consider the concerns behind your perspective. Lay out your concerns, so you can then brainstorm solutions together, instead of each partner arguing his or her point.

Address Specific Behaviors. It is better to address specific behaviors rather than personality traits.

Talk When You’re Calm. The atmosphere has to stay emotionally safe enough so that both people can put out each of their ideas/feelings/experience about the conflict and then they can have a respectful conversation about it without attachment to who is right or who is wrong.... Don’t start a conversation “if you feel overwhelmed by emotion because it clouds your thinking and distorts things,” Batshaw said. He added that “You also don’t want to be overly detached.” It’s important to think about what you want to say in a thoughtful way.

Create Boundaries. Have some boundaries about what is acceptable behavior and what isn't, [such as] no cursing, no physical interaction, no yelling or screaming.... Just like on a soccer field, as soon as people go out of bounds, the play stops.

Apologize. An apology can go a long way. We all make mistakes and we need to acknowledge that we had a part in an argument that [gets] out of hand..... You don’t have to say, “I’m sorry I said that,” but it can be as simple as “I’m sorry, we’re fighting.”

Seek Counseling. If you’re stuck on a specific conflict or one of you doesn't want to talk about it, even when pressed, consider seeing a couples therapist. The sooner you get [help], the easier, more cost effective, and the longer you can enjoy a happier relationship together!.

Enjoy your weekend!.

How To Grind With A Guy Sexily And Discreetly.

Want to know how to smash with a guy and make him wet his bermuda at the same time? Here is a hidden information to do just that without creating it apparent. By Jana Snow

Whenever we think of the art of farming, we usually affiliate it with teenagers.

But actually, it’s something that all of us use all enough time.

As a lady, there happens to be little distinction between being elegant and being crass.

Of course, you can smash with any guy you like, but will that cause to anything better than a one evening stand?

If you want to smash with a guy and look excellent while doing it, you need to know a few factors you can do it the right way.

And most of all, never be too apparent when you are trying to smash with a guy.

It’ll just create you seem too simple to get.

If you want to have a fun time with a guy you fulfill at a team or anywhere else and still be well known and followed by him, you need to understand to stimulate a guy, and yet create it seem like it was him creating all the goes all through the way.


What is farming really?

Now all of us do know this, but for the inexperienced ladies, farming is the art of shifting your buttocks around a man's genitals, especially while dancing with him. Appears to be quite strong, yes, but it’s something that comes normally between reverse genders when they are turned on by each other.

Many ladies wonder about the right way to smash and look excellent while doing it. But knowing how to smash with a guy needs no training. You can do it any way you like and the guy will still like you for it.

But what issues is how simple you are going to perform and provides in to a man's genitals.

How To Smash With A Guy And Stimulate Him:

If you want to know how to smash with a guy, stimulate him, and still experience much better about yourself, here are 9 tips you can follow.......

#1 Get a sweetheart to dance with you. Dancing alone creates the whole farming activity rather apparent. To begin off, dancing with your sweetheart and create it seem like you are not really realizing any guy. Soon enough, you will have a few lovely people dancing around awaiting your interest.

#2 Dance next to the guy you like. But do not even hassle looking at him just yet. Observe him from the area of your eye and see if he’s been realizing you. Or if you want to smash with some guy who has not observed you yet, just shift along on the oasis until you are near to him.

#3 Cleaning time. Dance normally as you always do, but shift really near to a guy you like and sweep him with your buttocks *accidentally*. Don’t try to get his interest just yet and do not create it seem like you are wanting to dance with him by looking at him. Hang on for him to do something or reciprocate. Right now, just create it seem like you are dancing with your buddy. But do not quit the periodic buttocks brushing, let him experience your contact and want more of it.

#4 Touch him with your chests. Grinding is the simple aspect. The challenging aspect is to create it all seem hidden. As you are dancing with your buddy, shift shoulder area around so your breasts variations his arm now and them. Does he observe your random touch? Does he grin or does he shift nearer to you? If he realizes it and tries to get your interest, display a little lovely grin returning at him and let him know that you have observed him. But do not do it too obviously, and prevent allowing him know that your variations were deliberate.

#5 Fall your arms. Keep your arms by your factors as you are dancing and let it float near his buttocks and feet. He’d obviously begin shifting about a lot more just to get more of your variations. Always keep your system or arms really near to a guy, but prevent creating the first contact if you want to create him perform for your interest.


#6 Let the fingertips contact. Let your fingertips contact his fingertips as both of you dancing beside each other. And when your fingertips do contact his, do not shift them away but do not do anything about it either. It’ll generate him insane and all he’d want to do is hold it. He may even try that!

#7 Phase at the front aspect of him. Once you have had a lot of system variations going on and he’s regularly trying to look for methods to contact you, it’s a chance to get to the aspect where you smash with him. By proposition him lengthy enough, you would be able to stimulate him and create him perform for your interest instead of being too simple to get which is always a great factor. It’ll create him want you more too!

Step at the front aspect of him and shift your hips around so your buttocks is regularly in contact with his upper leg. This will be his cue to come near behind you. If he’s shy, a few *accidental* variations on his genitals with your buttocks while dancing will definitely do the key.

#8 Move your buttocks around. Once he’s right behind you, get really near to him and media your buttocks carefully against his genitals. Move around and dancing like you always do, but pay more interest to swaying your hips around so you can experience his trousers stiffen behind you.

#9 Fall your arms to the aspect. If the guy is not putting his arms on your hips already, drop your arms down or run it down your hips now and then as you sway your hips. Even better if you can get your arms to go down and contact his fingertips often. You’ll stimulate him so much that all he’ll want to do is keep your hips or your arms and come even nearer while you shift your buttocks all over his genitals. And really, that is all there is to farming and creating it seem like the guy is doing all the work!

While a team may be the best position to smash with a guy, you can also prudently smash with a guy at events or even in populated lines. It’s simple and fun, if you are in the right mood!.

Where is my lady?

Is She On The Right Path?

Hello Sweetie, How's your day? ?I saw some funny pictures of Peter(Psquare) today, on instagram.... you know #tbt (ThrowBackThursday). I was laughing out loud when i got a buzz on my phone, a friend dropped a story, wants your opinion and advice on this matter you are about to read.

A friend(Shade) met a guy(Shina), 7 years ago. Shina asked her out but she didn't accept his proposal but Shina still kept in touch with her and always reminds her that he still wants to date her.... Shina was serious, he asked to meet her parents 5 months ago and go for introduction but Shade said No.

And these are her excuses - He's fat, he doesn't look neat and he likes her too much ( he calls her every now and then, if he isn't calling, he is chatting with her). My friend is a witness to him calling at least 15 times everyday..... Shina is in his late 30's, he has a good job and ready to settle down....... BUT as ugly as Shina is, as dirty and slow as he is, Shade collects money and stuffs from him, regularly.... Shade can't hug him let alone peck or kiss him - I know whats going through your mind right now dear, let me see it in your comment.

Meanwhile, Shade likes someone else (Bayo), Bayo is 28, he is doing his youth service, so is Shade. Bayo doesn't like Shade and she knows it too, he might not even call her in 2 weeks. Shade is 29 but lied to Bayo she is 25, and they are both gonna round-off their NYSC later this year.

My friend said she is tired of advising her because she is not listening to her and she has kept her mouth shut.

If those are her excuses, she can tush Shina up, tell him to hit the gym and just try and make it work.

Will the guy be ready for marriage next year? Will he get a good job, immediately after NYSC? Isn't she wasting her time? Should she not just go for Shina?

Say something please, My Dear Reader.....

Beware Of Kidnappers.

Hello my darling! I really have to bring this in, my friend was almost kidnapped yesterday.... She was given a flyer, for job vacancy. It was shared at the Redeem camp.... They call their company "New Fruit Juice Company", they claim to have post for Customer service and different offers, just their number is written on the flyer..

Once you call the number, you might not even need to waste your airtime, just beep and they would call you back, the girl would answer as AY, when you tell her that you got their flyer for job vacancy, she would tell you to come to Anthony bus-stop and call them when you are there, she would be the first to call you in the morning, then tell you to come to gbagada, charlie boy bus stop.... She would never say any address, and she won't say where she is or what she is wearing, she would ask for what you are wearing and tell you to wave your hands, then 2 hefty men would be parading the bus-stop where you are. My friend was sharp, when the lady didn't tell her what she was wearing and didn't tell her any address, so she could just come there straight, her instinct told her not to wave, and the men didn't know who they wanted to kidnap, they kept parading, she noticed and jumped into the next available bus.

She didn't get herself for a while when she got to my place, so I collected the number and mistakenly beeped, trying to save it, that I'd call them later and act like I needed a job. I got a call back, instantly, and just like my friend narrated, the AY girl said. I persuaded her to just give me their office address but she didn't  insisted that I come to Anthony and she'd pick me up... I'm still thinking of a way these people can be caught. My friend still has the flyer, she is gonna take it back to camp next month and give to the securities in case they come to share again but meanwhile, this is the number - 08109587875.

Please, let's think of a way to get these people caught.

Thanks!.