Will You Forgive A Cheat?

Good day my dear, I hope you are having a great week?.

A guy named Kola is getting married next weekend. Last week, his fiancee went to see him at home, to make a true confession...

Kola's fiancee told him she was once a prostitute, that's before they met, at a party.... And when their relationship started to get serious, she quit but couldn't tell him about it...

She said a guy started to call her last month, to blackmail her. The blackmailer threatens to tell her fiance unless she sleeps with him. She said she slept with the blackmailer once, thinking it'd stop there and then but the guy has been calling again and again, after that. Kola's fiancee can't do it anymore and decided to tell Kola.

Kola sent her out and said he called off the wedding. He said he might have forgiven her for the prostitution since she claimed she stopped but he doesn't think he can bear that she slept with another  guy, while they were planning their future.. "Not at all", he included.

Hmmmm!!!, This is large..... I can't tell someone to do what i can't take but i'll advise Kola to forgive his fiancee. Yes, She cheated but she confessed, don't forget most people won't confess. I know that the fact that she waited till now isn't all right but please forgive her, then think and decide on whatever you want to do..

Dear Reader, What do you say?

What Was He Thinking When He Called Another Girl's Name?

Hello, Hope you had a lovely weekend?  I missed you too.

Nelson, my friend, needs your help and mine... Although I think he is a player. Lol. Nelson is an igbo guy and he is asking a girl out but had not given him an answer. Last week, he called her on the phone and mistakenly called another girl's name, she hung up and didnt pick his call again... I told Nelson to tell her that it was his sister's name he called but he said it was a yoruba name that he mentioned - I wasn't teaching him how to lie o!, It was just a suggestion.... Then, Nelson sent her a text that she was a big baby, that if he says sorry, it would mean he is at fault - Interesting!

 Nelson, if you really like her, i mean genuine likeness -  then admit to your mistake and apolgize.... I'm not saying that would change anything but that would be the right thing to do anyways.

Dear Reader, What do you think about this situation and what do you think Nelson should do???

Will You Stay If Your Partner Is Violent?

Hey Dear, how's your weekend coming along? Mine's been great asides the pain i'm feeling from the hot beans that poured on my right palm this morning but i'm fine, thank you.

I didn't know guys still beat women, Really??? And even the ones they claim they love - Awful!!!.

An Anonymous lady sent a mail that her fiance beats her sometimes when he gets angry with her but apologizes when he is calm..... Her friends advised her to break up with him but she said she can't because she really loves him, he caters for her and her family, he's loving and caring, the only thing he does wrong is the beating.

She wants to know what she can do to stop him from beating her...

Dear Anonymous, Its funny you are not asking if to leave him or not because its a very bad thing for a man to beat a woman, let alone regular beating.... What i think you can do is not to always get him angry, which i don't think is ever possible but try, and if you realize he's getting in that mood that can cause him to beat you - RUN AWAY....I hope and pray it doesn't get worse than this because if you want me to be true to you - i'd say Leave him, God will provide a responsible man for you.

My reader, any advice for dear Anonymous? Will you stay if your partner is violent???.

Why Men Should Wash Their Hands After Urinating.

It was a muggy, hot lunchtime....I was strolling to a restaurant while talking to a friend on the phone....Unknowingly, i cut the phone because i saw a very handsome guy, slim, tall, atleast 6", dark and well dressed.... Yes, i was staring, and i began to think of how to say hello, how to pretend we have met before, you know how you guys do it, i was planning how to start that conversation.... Who says ladies don't ask guys out?? - Ok, most of us seduce...
 Suddenly, he moved to the side of the road and started to pee..... Eeeewwww!!!!! Bad business, dirty dude... I was irritated, then heartbroken, I stood at that spot, thinking if i still want to talk to this guy or not, even if i would, because of his looks, then i have to correct him.... We see this everywhere, everytime but we overlook it and see it as a normal thing but hey, its very unhealthy....

A Guy should learn to wash his hands after urinating.....

Some facts: The purpose of washing is not to get pee off your hands. No amount of washing will make you clean. You have to do it anyway.

Your boxer-shorts region — from belly button to mid-thigh — is crawling with germs known as coliform bacteria. These bacteria originated in your intestine, and some of them are deadly. Remember punji stakes? They were sharpened sticks that the Vietcong concealed point up along trails and daubed with excrement. If you stepped on one you had a good chance of contracting a fatal infection.

The bacteria won't do much harm if they stay put, but when you urinate your fingers come in contact with Mister P. long enough for the coliform bacteria in your pores to hop aboard. Your fingers subsequently touch lots of other infectible items. If you don't wash your hands with soap and water (soap gets rid of the skin oil that the bacteria stick to).

Remember that the genitals share a yard with their dirty neighbor, the anus. The bacteria from the anal area can and do migrate, often without any symptoms you can see or smell. That's another reason for hand-washing, as well as other controversial acts such as regular bathing...

Have A Lovely Weekend!..

A Rich Dude That Sucks Totally Or What?

Good day and thank you for your comment on previous posts especially the last one, Bello is grateful and has agreed to go for the lady that can cook and he will take care of the rest....I'm curious, Is he good in bed? - *Coughs*, I forgot to use my cough syrup today.

Plenty of emails and I started this 3 days ago but I want to quickly bring this in, its related to the last post, a friend, Francis pinged me yesterday after he read the post and asked a funny question but serious question..... Francis asked which i will go for - A rich guy that sucks in bed or a poor guy thats good in bed?. You know what i told him? I said I'd get back to him in 2 weeks - LOL!!!

Its a tough one but my lady, this is what i'll advice....
1. You could go for a rich and cool guy who can't satisfy you sexually if you like him, and you are sure you won't cheat.... You want to make that kind of relationship work, then he needs to see a doctor and fix whatever the problem might be - The thing is most people are shy to tell, even their doctors, their problems.

2. You could go for the guy thats good in bed but poor if you like him, and that is if he isn't lazy. If he is hardworking and focus, sooner or later, he will start paying the bills and everybody will be fine.

3.Follow your heart.

Oh, are you still waiting to hear which I'd choose? My answers are what you have just read, my dear!... The question is, after this - Which will you go for, my lady? What sacrifice are you willing to make?

A Woman That Can Cook Or A Woman That Is Great In Bed?

Hello my friend, hope you had a lovely day? I was going to post something entirely different but i got a mail from a guy named Bello who wants me to share this story.

 Bello is 36 and he's thinking of settling down but has 2 girlfriends - Why would you have 2 girlfriends at a time? Well, I wont say anything unless you ask for my opinion on that.

 One of his girlfriends can cook, very well.... She can make efo-riro with assorted meats, she can pound yam, she is just awesome in that area - Of course  every woman should be but she is very poor in bed - If you know what i mean and if you don't  send me a mail to explain.... The other girlfriend can do all the sex styles you can ever think of - don't let me put stuffs in your head, She is first-class in bed but she cant cook to save her own life....

 Bello likes the both of them but he is confused about who to choose...

Errrmmm, I'll say maybe Bello should go for the One that is good in bed but cant cook - Why? Because i think anyone can be taught how to cook but i doubt if anyone can be taught how to be great in bed..... I may be wrong though.

Please advise Bello and Which would you prefer? A girl that can cook but poor in bed or a girl that's good in bed but cannot cook????

Does Your Partner Know Your Surname?

Mide and Tayo had been dating for 6 months..... They were very fond of each other, Mide's parents knew Tayo very well, they went everywhere together and were the talk of the town.... They both loved each other, Well, i think so - You would understand why i'm not even certain of that statement.

  On this lovely afternoon, they decided to go and see a movie but they got there early enough to have a couple of drinks before the movie starts..... Then Mide saw his childhood friend, hugged each other and were happy to see each other..... Mide's friend turned to Tayo and said "Hi, my name is Kunle, whats your name? "And she said "I'm Tayo"..... Mide's friend said "Tayo, nice to meet you but your name sounds like a guy's, whats your other name?" And she said "Bukola"...

There was a surprised look on Mide's face and said he never knew she beared Bukola, Tayo was amazed and said she had told him before, how come he couldnt remember... She had this sharp look and turned to ask him ehat her surname was, Alas!, Mide couldnt remember that too or didnt even know and this caused a big fight.... Tayo refused to see the movie and went home disappointed and bitter.

What would yo do if your boyfriend/girlfriend of 6 months doesnt know your surname??

Does your partner even know your surname??? Go ahead and ask them.