Will You Stay If Your Partner Is Violent?

Hey Dear, how's your weekend coming along? Mine's been great asides the pain i'm feeling from the hot beans that poured on my right palm this morning but i'm fine, thank you.

I didn't know guys still beat women, Really??? And even the ones they claim they love - Awful!!!.

An Anonymous lady sent a mail that her fiance beats her sometimes when he gets angry with her but apologizes when he is calm..... Her friends advised her to break up with him but she said she can't because she really loves him, he caters for her and her family, he's loving and caring, the only thing he does wrong is the beating.

She wants to know what she can do to stop him from beating her...

Dear Anonymous, Its funny you are not asking if to leave him or not because its a very bad thing for a man to beat a woman, let alone regular beating.... What i think you can do is not to always get him angry, which i don't think is ever possible but try, and if you realize he's getting in that mood that can cause him to beat you - RUN AWAY....I hope and pray it doesn't get worse than this because if you want me to be true to you - i'd say Leave him, God will provide a responsible man for you.

My reader, any advice for dear Anonymous? Will you stay if your partner is violent???.

Why Men Should Wash Their Hands After Urinating.

It was a muggy, hot lunchtime....I was strolling to a restaurant while talking to a friend on the phone....Unknowingly, i cut the phone because i saw a very handsome guy, slim, tall, atleast 6", dark and well dressed.... Yes, i was staring, and i began to think of how to say hello, how to pretend we have met before, you know how you guys do it, i was planning how to start that conversation.... Who says ladies don't ask guys out?? - Ok, most of us seduce...
 Suddenly, he moved to the side of the road and started to pee..... Eeeewwww!!!!! Bad business, dirty dude... I was irritated, then heartbroken, I stood at that spot, thinking if i still want to talk to this guy or not, even if i would, because of his looks, then i have to correct him.... We see this everywhere, everytime but we overlook it and see it as a normal thing but hey, its very unhealthy....

A Guy should learn to wash his hands after urinating.....

Some facts: The purpose of washing is not to get pee off your hands. No amount of washing will make you clean. You have to do it anyway.

Your boxer-shorts region — from belly button to mid-thigh — is crawling with germs known as coliform bacteria. These bacteria originated in your intestine, and some of them are deadly. Remember punji stakes? They were sharpened sticks that the Vietcong concealed point up along trails and daubed with excrement. If you stepped on one you had a good chance of contracting a fatal infection.

The bacteria won't do much harm if they stay put, but when you urinate your fingers come in contact with Mister P. long enough for the coliform bacteria in your pores to hop aboard. Your fingers subsequently touch lots of other infectible items. If you don't wash your hands with soap and water (soap gets rid of the skin oil that the bacteria stick to).

Remember that the genitals share a yard with their dirty neighbor, the anus. The bacteria from the anal area can and do migrate, often without any symptoms you can see or smell. That's another reason for hand-washing, as well as other controversial acts such as regular bathing...

Have A Lovely Weekend!..

A Rich Dude That Sucks Totally Or What?

Good day and thank you for your comment on previous posts especially the last one, Bello is grateful and has agreed to go for the lady that can cook and he will take care of the rest....I'm curious, Is he good in bed? - *Coughs*, I forgot to use my cough syrup today.

Plenty of emails and I started this 3 days ago but I want to quickly bring this in, its related to the last post, a friend, Francis pinged me yesterday after he read the post and asked a funny question but serious question..... Francis asked which i will go for - A rich guy that sucks in bed or a poor guy thats good in bed?. You know what i told him? I said I'd get back to him in 2 weeks - LOL!!!

Its a tough one but my lady, this is what i'll advice....
1. You could go for a rich and cool guy who can't satisfy you sexually if you like him, and you are sure you won't cheat.... You want to make that kind of relationship work, then he needs to see a doctor and fix whatever the problem might be - The thing is most people are shy to tell, even their doctors, their problems.

2. You could go for the guy thats good in bed but poor if you like him, and that is if he isn't lazy. If he is hardworking and focus, sooner or later, he will start paying the bills and everybody will be fine.

3.Follow your heart.

Oh, are you still waiting to hear which I'd choose? My answers are what you have just read, my dear!... The question is, after this - Which will you go for, my lady? What sacrifice are you willing to make?

A Woman That Can Cook Or A Woman That Is Great In Bed?

Hello my friend, hope you had a lovely day? I was going to post something entirely different but i got a mail from a guy named Bello who wants me to share this story.

 Bello is 36 and he's thinking of settling down but has 2 girlfriends - Why would you have 2 girlfriends at a time? Well, I wont say anything unless you ask for my opinion on that.

 One of his girlfriends can cook, very well.... She can make efo-riro with assorted meats, she can pound yam, she is just awesome in that area - Of course  every woman should be but she is very poor in bed - If you know what i mean and if you don't  send me a mail to explain.... The other girlfriend can do all the sex styles you can ever think of - don't let me put stuffs in your head, She is first-class in bed but she cant cook to save her own life....

 Bello likes the both of them but he is confused about who to choose...

Errrmmm, I'll say maybe Bello should go for the One that is good in bed but cant cook - Why? Because i think anyone can be taught how to cook but i doubt if anyone can be taught how to be great in bed..... I may be wrong though.

Please advise Bello and Which would you prefer? A girl that can cook but poor in bed or a girl that's good in bed but cannot cook????

Does Your Partner Know Your Surname?

Mide and Tayo had been dating for 6 months..... They were very fond of each other, Mide's parents knew Tayo very well, they went everywhere together and were the talk of the town.... They both loved each other, Well, i think so - You would understand why i'm not even certain of that statement.

  On this lovely afternoon, they decided to go and see a movie but they got there early enough to have a couple of drinks before the movie starts..... Then Mide saw his childhood friend, hugged each other and were happy to see each other..... Mide's friend turned to Tayo and said "Hi, my name is Kunle, whats your name? "And she said "I'm Tayo"..... Mide's friend said "Tayo, nice to meet you but your name sounds like a guy's, whats your other name?" And she said "Bukola"...

There was a surprised look on Mide's face and said he never knew she beared Bukola, Tayo was amazed and said she had told him before, how come he couldnt remember... She had this sharp look and turned to ask him ehat her surname was, Alas!, Mide couldnt remember that too or didnt even know and this caused a big fight.... Tayo refused to see the movie and went home disappointed and bitter.

What would yo do if your boyfriend/girlfriend of 6 months doesnt know your surname??

Does your partner even know your surname??? Go ahead and ask them.

Chris Brown And Rihanna War Of Words Continues.

Singers Rihanna and Chris Brown's relationship has been on and off more times than Polly put the kettle on and Sukey take it off again. While it seemed at one point, that Chris Brown and Rihanna had made up for good, they went and decided to call time on their relationship once again.

Since then, Rihanna and Chris Brown have been at each other's throats, with a number of messages about each other on Twitter. Now, reports claim that Rihanna will never get back with Chris, following his comments he made on an Australian radio show, about Rihanna being to young for him to "be wife-ing".

A supposed insider is quoted as saying, "She really thought that was a sexist, degrading thing for him to say. Especially after all Rihanna endured after he beat her and all that. [Rihanna reportedly called Brown and] really blasted him, using language that made it sound like she never will get back with him again — no matter what people think."

With that being said, there is also another rumour going round, with another supposed insider, claiming that Chris Brown and Rihanna are on the verge of getting back together. I simply cannot keep up!

Do you think Rihanna and Chris Brown should get back together? Because I dont think they should....

Brad Pitt Calls Angelina Jolie's Double Mastectomy Decision 'Absolutely Heroic'.

The morning after Angelina Jolie published an op-ed in The New York Times that revealed her decision to have a double mastectomy, the man in her life is showing his support.

"Having witnessed this decision firsthand, I find Angie's choice, as well as many others like her, absolutely heroic," Brad Pitt said in a statement to London's Evening Standard. "I thank our medical team for their care and focus." 

"All I want is for her to have a long and healthy life, with myself and our children," Pitt continued. "This is a happy day for our family." 

In her op-ed piece, Jolie described her difficult choice to have surgery because genetic tests showed her to have a high risk of developing the disease. Her mother, Marcheline Bertrand, died of ovarian cancer at 56 in 2007.

She also expressed how much she leaned on Pitt, 49, whom the 37-year-old actress described as "loving and supportive," and there for her "for every minute of the surgeries." ......