Denim On Denim.

On my way to work this morning, the first person i saw stepping out was wearing denim on denim and i asked myself.... Is this actually right?.... Your guess is a good as mine,YES! It is.. I never would have thought its possible till i saw different celebrities like Rihanna, Kim K rocking it.... So i'm like ok, lets do this....

Ways You Can Rock Denim On Denim.....

Do Not  Pair More Than Two Items Of Denim At Once.

 Don't Wear Same Wash Together.

Colored denim is PERFECT to mix with traditional blue, since skinny jeans comes in different shades of color,pick a bright fun color and YES colored jeans are acceptable at any age. Now choose a jeans jacket to top them off.

Mix Dark Denim Shades With Light Shades.

Let Your Footwear Be Light E.g Flat Shoes, Flat Sandals, Mid Heel Shoes.

Balance It, If The Jeans Are Tight, Wear A Shirt That Is A Bit Looser And Vice Versa.

Wear A Colored Or Patterned Jeans With A Denim Shirt.

Wear A Denim Jeans, Denim Shirt Open With A T-Shirt Under It To Break Up The Look.

By Armynah.
Enjoy your weekend...

10 Steps To Bring The Spark Into Love.

When you lose the spark in a relationship, it’s not always because both of you don’t have time for each other.

Almost always, it’s because both of you just aren't having enough fun together!

All relationships start with a bang.

And all lovers know just what it takes to please their lover and keep love alive.

But somewhere along the way, most lovers overlook the little things that brought them together.

And they end up in relationships where two people exist together only because they were once passionately in love with each other.

It’s a memory of blissful romance that binds them together.

And if you take that memory away from them, there would be no reason to even talk to each other.

10 Steps To Bring The Spark Into Love....

The spark in your love life may be missing, but it’s definitely not gone for good. All of us have a choice, and we can bring that magical spark back into love if we choose to. But you need to remember that something that’s been missing for a while would take a considerable amount to time to come back again.

Bringing the spark back into the relationship can be a lot of fun, and it can make both of you feel like little kids again, but it does take some time and patience. But I can assure you, with every step along the way, you’ll feel closer and more alive than ever before!

Follow these 10 steps, one step at a time, starting from the first all the way to the tenth. And by the time you get to the last step, you won’t just rekindle the spark in your romance, both of you would feel completely infatuated by each other, all over again!

1. Make Time For Each Other. Every big change starts in small ways, and this is one such start. The first thing you need to do is learn to make time for each other. It’s not about living together or sleeping together, but about bonding together or sharing something that’s fun. Schedule a few hours every week, maybe a Sunday evening, to do something that both of you enjoy, like watching a movie or working on a pet project together.

2. Communicate. Don’t give up on each other. It’s the biggest mistake you can make. Making time for each other is a start, but communication is what brings both of you closer together. Talk to each other frankly and if there are a few things you don’t like about your partner, talk about it with them.

And likewise, listen to your partner’s opinions and take them into consideration too. Try to change for each other and learn from each other.

3. Pillow Talk. Don’t bring your worries into bed. Don’t bring your gadgets or reading material into bed. This is the biggest mistake lovers do. When you enter step three, make a habit of getting into bed with no distractions and just lie down together, even if it seems awkward or boring in bed because there are tons of things you could rather do.

You may not have too many things to talk about initially, but as a few nights pass, both of you may start talking to each other and communicating in a much better way.

4. Get Fit. Well, yes, this sucks, but you need to do this. Most couples let go after getting married or when they get into a long term relationship. They pile up several pounds, they stop dressing up and they just don’t care anymore. If you’re that partner, change yourself.

How would you care for your appearance if you were single, and if you had to go on a first date with someone you like, just how much of an effort would you put into dressing up for them?

Do you make the same effort for your partner who loves you and cares for you? Most probably, you don’t. And why is that? Do you think your partner deserves less of you than a stranger on a first date? You may not want to admit it, but the fact is, you’re taking your lover for granted and just don’t care about their opinions. And it’s time you stop that.

Try to impress your lover and win their appreciation. Look good, dress well, use perfume, flirt and attract their attention!.

5. Surprise Each Other. The romantic gestures may have been forgotten, but it has to be brought back into your relationship. And if you care enough to bring the spark back into your relationship, you need to start somewhere. Do you remember how often you used to do nice things for each other at the start of the relationship? Why stop now? Is it because it’s easier to just laze on the couch instead of walking down a street and buying flowers or a little sweet treat for your lover?

Make the effort to woo each other and surprise each other, at least in little ways. You can start small, and your partner will start reciprocating your effort too.

6. Go Clubbing. Remember, the loss of spark in love isn’t because of too much distance in love, it’s because both of you have forgotten to have fun together. So do just that! Go out, paint the town red and have fun together.

Get drunk, party hard, dance and grind against each other, kiss on the dance floor and laugh out loud. Even if you feel too old to dance all night long, try to make the effort to go out to places where you and your partner can have a wild and fun time.

7. Go On A Vacation Or A Short Getaway. The first few steps would bring both of you closer together and bond better. And now, it’s time to make a bigger change. Take off on a vacation or a weekend getaway.

But don’t plan something romantic just yet. Remember, there’s always the awkward feeling at the back of your mind because you’re doing all this not because you feel like it, but because you want to reignite the romance. So don’t put too much pressure on trying to focus on romance.

Plan a fun vacation to a beach where the two of you can party all night long, meet new and exciting people together and have a fun time. When you have fun together, romance will find a way back into your lives, so stop worrying about romance just yet!.

8. Get Intimate. Asking each other fun questions is a great way to open new conversations and get to know each other better. On a lazy weekend together, lie down in bed or on the couch, and ask each other a series of intimate and yet revealing questions.

Using these questions will help both of you feel a lot closer, and most importantly, it’ll rekindle the sexual excitement in the relationship!

9. Get Naughty. A happy romantic relationship needs a good dose of love and sex. So try to bring the sizzle back in your bedroom. Experiment in bed, and try a few naughty things in bed that both of you haven’t tried before.

But if both of you don’t feel very horny in each other’s company just yet, don’t force sex into the relationship. It never works. It may just lead to painful sex or a limp member.

Instead, create scenarios where you can turn your lover on instead, or talk about naughty things that turn your partner on. Sex will happen naturally!.

10. Bring Romance Back Into Your Lives. Now that you’ve followed the first nine steps, both of you would already feel a lot more passionate and happy in your love life. And now that happy love and passionate sex have found their way back into your love life, you need to learn to keep it that way.

Don’t take your partner for granted again. Woo them, serenade them, plan romantic ideas every now and then, and impress and awe them all the time. Each time you feel lazy or too bored to bring the magic back into love, just ask yourself sincerely if you’re taking your lover for granted. And ask yourself if you’re truly trying your best to make your lover smile.

The best part about a happy relationship is that the effort you take always pays you back a hundred fold. So stop worrying about what you’re going to get back in return, and just open your heart out to your lover. And you won’t just bring the passion back into your relationship, you’ll bring happiness back into your life too!.....

Shades Of Lipsticks.

Beauty is all about been comfortable in your own skin...that or a kick ass red-lipstick.. Never forget a woman's first job is to choose the right shade of  lipstick.

Never forget a woman's first job is to choose the right shade of  lipstick
 Ladies,what you need to know before applying lipsticks
Its very common to find ladies who wears the wrong shade of lipstick and end up looking like clowns. Wearing the wrong lipstick can ruin  your makeup and your entire look..
 Here's How To Get It Right;
1. Find a shade of lipstick that is one or two shades darker than your natural lips 2.Experiment with shades of pink. Pink looks good on all skin tones. For those with dark lips,try using deep pink lipstick. Pink lipsticks works with most outfits and hairstyles
3. Keep it simple during the day,the idea is to look as natural as possible unless of course you are attending an event
4. Enhance not distort,lipsticks like all other makeup is meant to enhance your looks not change it totally
Now, i will be talking about 3major shades of lipstick although we have other shades,which are Pink,Red and nude lipstick.

PINK LIPSTICKS
Not everyone can pull off wearing all shades of pink lipstick, most of us can take clues from our natural lip colors to determine what shade of pink lipstick that will look good on us. Pink lipstick can be worn at any time of the day but it is better to wear lighter shade for casuals...

NUDE LIPSTICKS

Nude lipsticks is the easiest to pull off and doesn't look too weird. It gives you a softer look but hardly suit all kinda lips. Nude lipsticks can be worn at any time and isn't choosy about the occasion

For those with dark lips and will like to wear the nude lipstick, follow these steps

1. Apply a little of your foundation on your lips.... YES! Your foundation

2. Smooth in the foundation to blend with your lips

3. Apply lipgloss or your nude lipstick on your foundation based lips.

RED LIPSTICKS.

By Armynah.

Should In-laws Stay With Their Children?

Hi dear friend, I hope you are having a good time?

A guy has his family living with him for a long time, before he got married.

The guy married the love of his life and of course the wife moved in with him and his family. After a year, the wife wants her in-laws out of the house.

She was sincere that the in-laws aren't giving her any problem. In fact, they are nice and peaceful but she just wants them out of the house so she and her husband can really live as a married couple and enjoy the early stage of their marriage. And she doesn't want it to get to a stage where they would start to misbehave or something like that.

Is her decision right?

Dear reader, What do you think about in-laws staying with their children?

How To Rock Ripped Jeans.

Lets talk about the new thing...oops! Its actually not that new but its back  in fashion.... I'm talking about ripped jeans which is also known as distressed jeans.... Back then it was called crazy jeans.

 Ripped jeans as its been called now is back and we r going 2 be discussing different ways you can rock yours without feeling left out....... You can create your own ripped jeans by trying these.

Get 1 of your nice fitted jeans.
Get a not too new blade and a needle.
Make a cut with the blade where you'll like the rip to appear.
Use your needle to pull out the white threads till you are satisfied.

 How To Rock Your Ripped Jeans.

Try matching your ripped jeans with a nice body top and a nice flat for your every day look.

For your trendy look,try matching your ripped jeans with a tank top and a nice biker jacket and for those without biker jacket try your normal blazers jacket.

You can combine ripped jeans with all kinds of tops,tops like;
          Loose T-shirt
          Fitted body top
          Tank-top
          Polo
          Spaghetti.

Your footwear also determines how serious you want to look with your ripped jeans,if you are going for casual,try matching your ripped jeans with a loafers or sandals. For your official look,try matching your ripped jeans with high heel sandals(don't forget your jacket if you are wearing just top),for your party look,dish d  jacket,try a more friendly top and a killer heels......yop!.  You are good to rock the party.

Try bum-short ripped jeans with a nice body top or tank-top for the beach or to d club.

For those who will rather wear ripped skirt,here it is, try a mid-length ripped skirt with a nice colorful body-top,tank-top and jacket or without depending on where you are going.

Always know this, ripped jeans is crazy enough on its own so the best way to rock it is by wearing a nice top that is not showing too much flesh.

 
Thanks..... See yah next time... We will b talking about 'shades of lipsticks'...

By Armynah.

Is This An Obsession Or True Love?

Whats up darling? How's the weather?

Is it possible for someone to love 2 persons at the same time?.

Tunde has 2 girlfriends - Tosin and Folake. Funny thing is that they both know they are dating the same guy. Folake is very possessive, she calls Tunde every now and then, she always wants to know where he is, what he is doing, she can just show up at his house without calling and all that. Folake had met Tosin with Tunde different times at his place, Folake will fight Tunde, shout and all but Tunde always leaves the house with Tosin, ignoring Folake.

Anytime Folake and Tunde had their fight like that, Tunde will tell Tosin he had broken up with Folake but she won't just leave him alone. Tunde has even said it in Folake's face once, but 2 or 3 days after, Tosin would realize Folake and Tunde are on good terms again.

The other part is Tunde's family know Folake and some know Tosin.

Every time Tosin tries to walk away from the relationship, Tunde would beg with everything in the world, he would cry, he would call his friends to help him beg her and all that, these always leaves Tosin worried.

Whenever Tosin asks what exactly he wants, he would tell her that they should run away because even his parents don't want to hear about another girl.

Tosin had better run away without him, she should walk out of the relationship.

Dear Reader, what's your opinion? Because I also think Tunde isn't ready to leave Folake and he is just obsessed with Tosin.

He Cheated: Do You Take Him Back Or Dump Him?

What he did was totally heinous and unacceptable, but maybe it left you wondering, "Is there ever a time when it's OK to take back a cheater?” While your knee-jerk reaction is probably to send him packing, experts say there are some situations in which he just might deserve a second chance. Read on to find out when to forgive and forget, and when you should just forget him.


Take Him Back...

Right Before A Major Transition.
Moving in together or getting engaged are relationship landmarks that are supposed to cement your bond. But the reality is, many guys react to these big steps by taking a step back and straying. “When a man feels his sense of freedom slipping away, he may cheat,” explains Scott Kudia.. “It’s very common for a normally faithful guy to panic and do something stupid before some sort of commitment.” Strangely enough, his actions often signify that he’s serious about his future with you. “The reason he cheated to begin with is that he believes you two are going to be together for a long time,” says Kudia. “He views it as his one last hurrah.”  This isn’t a get-out-of-jail-free card, though. Make him apologize and grovel. Then move on, knowing that this type of cheater usually doesn’t slip up more than once.

He Fesses Up ASAP.
Of all the ways a woman can discover a philanderer, one of the least common is hearing it from the horse’s mouth. Guys almost always keep these sorts of things a secret. The fact that he’s confessing is a huge sign. And a very good sign. View it as a cry for help. He doesn’t want to do it again, and his way of ensuring that is by getting you to lay down the law. So, play police officer, girl. Set some guidelines and—this is important—enforce them. If he’s distraught enough over the hookup to spill, the guy probably values you and the relationship enough to make it work.

It’s A Total Aberration.
I'm going to put this bluntly, so put on your big-girl pants: The guy who’s perfect for you might cheat on you. Yes, even the most amazing, flower-sending, call-returning, make-your-friends-jealous boyfriends have been known to stray. “Slipups happen, but the good news is that when they truly are slipups, they’re survivable,” says William July. In order to salvage your twosome, it’s important to resist the urge to get revenge, make him angry, or feel anxious every time he doesn’t call, according to July. If you’re capable of forgiving him and moving on, do just that. After all, it was a mistake, not his relationship MO. Bottom line: give the boy a second chance. As long as he doesn’t do it again (ever, ever, ever) and he goes back to being that practically perfect boyfriend, don’t you think he’s worth it?.

He’s Going Through A Tough Time.
You know how when you feel stressed, you deal by watching  TV? Or surrounding yourself with 17 of your closest friends? Well, some men handle it by straying. Guys are more likely to cheat when under great stress, because they have fewer tools in their emotional tool belt. Their self-expression is often limited to anger and sex. It sounds a bit counterintuitive, but if things are going well between you two, he is more likely to hook up with another woman when things get rough in other parts of his life. The reason? He may not want to burden you with his problems. Ensure that it’s a one-time occurrence by letting him know two things: 1. You won’t judge him or think less of him if he gets fired or screws up at work or does anything else that threatens his ego. And 2. If he does it again, it’s O-V-E-R.

He Was Drunk And It Wasn’t Emotional.
Ah yes, the “It Doesn’t Count if I Was in a Different Country/Zip Code/Bar” excuse. He takes a few too many shots, temporarily forgets he is attached, and makes out with whatever girl is at arm’s length in the bar. Not cool. But also, not the worst thing that can happen. “This type of guy is immature, but he’s not necessarily an innate cheater,” explains Kudia. And luckily for you, most boys grow out of immaturity (whereas a natural-born cheater will seldom change his ways.) “Many young, college-age men don’t understand the importance of a relationship,” says Kudia. They take their girlfriends for granted until something catastrophic happens. When catastrophe strikes, be hard on him and tell him you won’t stick around if he doesn’t shape up and grow up. Most of the time, a healthy dose of reality is enough to straighten out an “immature cheater.”

Break It Off!

Five reasons to kick a cheater to the curb.

He Got It On With An Ex.
Going back for seconds with an old girlfriend could mean he wants to get back together with her.

It Was A Full-Fledged Affair.
Text messages. Secret e-mail account. "Business" trips. This is not a slip-up. It's a double life.

He Didn't Apologize.
I'm not suggesting flowers and crying will get him off the hook. But a total lack of remorse means he just doesn't care.

You Two Just Started Dating.
The beginning of a relationship is when people show their best selves. If this is his best, you deserve better.

He's A Repeat Offender.
A serial strayer is unlikely to change his ways. Don't waste your time trying.....