There are two primary types of cheating in a relationship - Physical and Emotional. Physical cheating is the easiest to identify and classify, while those who are cheating emotionally may not even realize it at first. Of the two, it is difficult to tell which is more damaging to a relationship as well.
So I'll just focus on physical cheating at the moment.
Physical cheating isn't just having sexual intercourse with someone other than your partner. This is doing anything physical with someone that your partner will not approve of, and that should be reserved for a partner alone. Depending on the boundaries in a particular relationship, this could mean caressing, kissing, holding, improper touching, and so on up to and including intercourse.
Why do people cheat? But I'm gonna start with men. so, Why do men cheat?
I don't mean the ones that just sleep around with no focus. I mean I have seen different guys with serious relationships and at the same time have side chicks....
Some love their girlfriend so much, some plan to marry their so called girlfriend, but they can't keep their stuff in their boxers or whatever they wear. I believe if you have the guts to cheat, you should be bold to say it as it is to the side chicks if you know what I'm saying. You know what they say?: "I don't have a girlfriend", "My girlfriend and I just broke up", "My girlfriend and I are having problems" and so on like that... Men, I hail o!
It also applies to married men, in fact, that worries me a lot. Most of the men I asked why they cheat on their wives said they do so because they can handle the single chicks or so anyhow they want in bed and if they don't say yes to them, they won't force them..... That's very true, women are also part of the reasons men cheat and before you castigate me, women cheat too, I know and I'm coming to that later on. But if you wanna be sincere, you'd agree with me that men cheat more than women. *Covers head*.
But asides all that, some complained about their women at home and suggested if they can stop nagging, leave the past in the past, keep themselves up, listen to their men, respect their men and all of that, things would be fine. I'm sure if you do all these and more for men, won't stop some men from cheating, still.
Dear Reader, can you shed more light on this?
This topic is not a day's discussion cos there are so many things to say, like for a guy, after getting the girl, most girls take guys for granted, once it starts the guys will look fotls, when the guys are busy trying to provide for the girls, they become unavailable most times, and that leads to girls looking for some1 that will be available most of the time
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ReplyDeleteBut my perspective?...Yes men cheat more than women....
Is that a bad thing?....Obviously....
Would it ever stop happening?....Most def not!!!
And Why?...
Firstly, most men can be very insatiable and also tend to get bored very easily, hence the need to "look outside" even though they genuinely love their partners (This is particularly sad)...
Also, while women can most times substitute these physical needs with material things/events (e.g. women who shop for shoes when they feel h***y to get their mind excited with something equally interesting to them), men just cant...at least not an average nigerian man....
Finally, (chics hate it when i say this but u v to agree that guys know this and many just cant seem to ignore it..lol), there are just more females than males in most parts of the world.....some men have to cheat for some women not to die the same way they came....lol....just kidding....
Well the issue of men cheating more is not true, besides u can't have physical cheating without emotional cheating... Lemi give an example... Man is too busy and needs to get money for house keeping thereby not having so much time for woman, woman starts getting bored and joins social network (now that's the first step) , woman meets boy and boy tells woman sweet words and keeps woman happy, in no time boy and woman hit it off..... Pls who's cheating now.....
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