Relationship And Sex.

Have u ever really asked yourself what Relationship is,Actually?

Well, Honestly it depends on how you think what a relationship means...
     If U are younger, say in high school, there are boyfriends and girlfriends who say they are in a relationship......So, they are dating....They are still young, so their relationship isnt something serious....

    If U were out of Highschool, maybe, and were in a dating relationship, it could be taken more serious because with the older age, settling down is more of an option....

     Then again, there's also a relationship meaning you relate well with someone.....for Example : "Me and my younger brother have a strong relationship"......That doesnt mean we are dating, it just means we relate and get along well......Actually the origin of the word "RELATIONSHIP" is; "SENSE OF BEING RELATED"....

Well, as i mentioned before, It all depends on you.

                                  .......Unto Relationship And Sex......

SEX is an important part of a relationship but if it is, or becomes the most important aspect, then there is no "REAL" Relationship.......It can be the Ultimate expression of love between two people, a way to communicate feelings that are difficult to express in words................It's pretty important for pro-creation ----Obvious exceptions being infertility or disability........It helps build closeness and Intimacy, relieves stress, gives comfort.....SEX differentiates a romantic relationship from a platonic relationship.

        Also SEX and SEXUAL issues are very important, crucial even......If Sex was unimportant,..then i say cheating would also be considered unimportant.....After Sex, both partners' brains release chemicals that make them feel happy and most importantly connected and in love.......The effect is far stronger for women......

      Regular Sex bonds a couple together.....Needless to say this is far from the only thing bondling a couple......Any physical affection, cuddling, kisses, hugs, holding hands can have this effect as well as the connection from the shared experiences, conversations, similar interests and all........
     One thing i want you to know for sure is that SEX will not always make or break a relationship BUT a terrible sex life....u know.....absent, violent, whatever) or a cheating partner can break a relationship.

SEX is more important to some people than pthers.....Some people prefer frequent sex, some people are once a week or even less often.......These differences can cause problems....The key is compromise, sometimes you will be having sex that you aren't fully in the mood for, sometimes you will want and go without, as long as one of you isnt always giving way to needs of the other  you can work it out.

   Sex isnt all there is to a great relationship but it is an important part.

   Between, Love and sex are not the same thing; this is what some people never learn......Sex without Love is just physical.....Love without Sex can be pure, spiritual and true....BUT SEX with someone you love un-equivocally, can be gentle and tender, hot and wild, comfortable or simply sublime.....One last thing, dont forget that the most important sexual organ is the Brain......